Showing posts with label weddings. Show all posts
Showing posts with label weddings. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

May in Review

It's hard for me to believe that it's already June. May went by so quickly; it was a month full of moving, celebrations, traveling and unpacking. All the activities kept me away from the blog, but I hope one detailed post about May will make up for my absence...

Last month started off with packing up and moving into the new digs. Rick and I love our new place and our new neighborhood, but we definitely don't like unpacking and getting settled in. Part of the problem has been that I still have a bunch of my junk at my old apartment. Sally is staying there and her friend is moving in at the end of the summer, so there was no immediate rush to get my stuff out. When I first realized that I'd be able to move my things into the new apartment gradually, I was relieved. I thought it would be much easier to move things out little by little instead of a mad rush to move in one day.

I was wrong.

I've now learned that I have absolutely no motivation to move if I don't have an immediate deadline. Here we are, more than a month after getting the keys to the apartment and my closet in Brookline is still loaded with my stuff. If I'm ever in this situation again, I will give myself a made-up deadline to ensure that I move out of my old place in a timely fashion. Luckily, we will be having our first official overnight guests this weekend (YAY!), so that is inspiring me to drag myself back to Brookline and get everything else out of there.

The beginning of May also marked Rick's graduation from UConn's Business School. It was a nice weekend of festivities for the students and their family and friends. There were so many great people in the program that Rick (and myself) got to know and a number of students from countries all over the world. It was a bittersweet weekend since so many of Rick's friends are now scattered across the globe, but at least technology makes it easier to stay in touch!

We also made a quick trip to Melbourne, Florida in May. Rick will be going there frequently for work and I tagged along with him for a few days. It was lovely to sit on the beach and relax, although it was very hot and humid. I stayed under an umbrella and went through a lot of sunscreen, which is no surprise to anyone that has ever been outdoors with me. The only odd thing about our visit was that it happened to coincide with the annual infestation of lightning bugs--know in the South as "love bugs." They hatch, live for only a few days, die and end up absolutely everywhere! It was gross, but short-lived. We did feel a little bit like we were trapped in a Biblical plague...

The month winded down with the lovely wedding of one of my oldest friends. I've known Ned since we were nine, but we joke that we didn't become friends for about 10 years after that! Ned and Kristin were married at the Cape's Greek Orthodox Church and then we all celebrated at Ned's parents' house. The Greek ceremony was very interesting and the wedding program included explanations of the symbolic meaning of the Mass, which was great. In the photo above, the bride and groom wear crowns to symbolize that they are now "king and queen" of their new home and family. It was a wonderful night of Greek dancing, toasts, cigars, laughter, food, drinks and great conversation. We loved it! Congratulations to Ned and Kristin!

Finally, I hope everyone spent at least a little time this Memorial Day Weekend thinking about the sacrifices made for our country. If you ever have the chance, I would highly recommend visiting Arlington National Cemetery in DC. It is a moving tribute to our lost soldiers and a profound reminder of how many lives have been lost in honor of our country. I have visited Arlington four times and I would absolutely go again...

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

The End of Wedding Season (at least for now)

This weekend, we were in New Hampshire for a lovely wedding at UNH. Saturday was the fourth (and final) wedding Rick and I went to in 2009 and it's the eighth wedding I've been to in the past 13 months. The past two summers (actually, the past three) have been full of weddings and wedding-related activities and I don't think it will be letting up anytime soon.

When I was a senior in college, one of my best friends got engaged and asked me to be her maid of honor. Once I started telling people about Kelly's wedding, which took place a year after we graduated, I kept hearing that the next 10 years or so would be jam-packed with weddings. I didn't really believe it since it seemed far off, but fast-forward a few years later and I've been to 10 weddings since college: eight in the aforementioned 13 months, plus there were two weddings I was invited to and could not attend. (Fun fact: I've been to four weddings in the last year where the groom was named Mike.)

Not that it's a problem for me-- I love weddings. Drinking, dancing, cake-- a day (or evening) full of my favorite things! I just can't believe how fast all this period of life came on. It seems like one minute you're singing "Sweet Caroline" at your favorite college bar and the next minute you're singing "Sweet Caroline" at your friend's wedding. (By the way, some of my friends have created the awesome tradition of having "Sweet Caroline" as the last song at their reception. Amazing and I would recommend that others adopt said tradition.)

I still have plenty of weddings to attend-- there are already three on the calendar for the next two years, with more to be added, I'm sure-- and I'll be ready for them. All of these weddings may have seemed to come up on us quickly, but they really are a blast.

Update(9-28-09): I'm now not just attending three weddings in the next two years, I'll be in one of those weddings! Woo Hoo!